March 30, 2011

Taylor's Birth Story

Well it only took me 5 months to have the time to sit and write this all out but I got it done!  Here's the saga of how our little Lucky Star came into our lives!

Tuesday October 26, 2010 I went to my regularly scheduled doctors appointment at 4pm.  I was 40 weeks and 4 days pregnant and my doctor said that there were no signs of Taylor coming anytime soon so she scheduled an induction for Saturday the 30th.  I left the appointment sad and for the 1st time disappointed that Taylor had not arrived yet.  I came home and had dinner with Gus and by 10 pm I was starving again so I ate dinner for the 2nd time (this was the first time I was actually starving during my pregnancy).  After a few tears of sadness that I was going to have to be induced we went to bed unbeknownst to us that it was our last night as a family of two.  
Around 12:30 am I awoke with a funny feeling that something was going to happen, I rushed to the bathroom and my water broke!  I woke Gus up and we got ourselves out the door with a quick stop at Del Taco for a 3rd dinner on the way to the hospital.  We arrived at 2:15am and we were admitted to Labor and Delivery.  I was dilated to a 3 and the nurse was shocked that I had not felt one pain!  Around 3:30 am we were moved to our room and Grandpa and Grandma arrived to wait out the night with us.  I was started on Pitocin so my contractions became more and more apparent and Grandma Nicky arrived to wait the day with us as well.  At 7:45 am I got my epidural and it only worked on my right side, we had to have the anesthesiologist come back and reposition it so it would be in the proper place to numb me on both sides.  As we watched as my contractions got stronger and I laid my head back to get some rest.  The midwife told Gus that it would be about 6 hours or more so he laid down for a nap too. 
This is where the timing gets fuzzy for me, the following events happened between 9:30am and 10:30 am but they felt like 10 minutes in my mind.  The midwife became concerned that Taylor was in distress because on the monitors his heart rate was slowing with each contraction.  They switched me to an internal monitor so they could get a more accurate reading of his heart rate.  At this time I was dilated to a 5, so we had a ways to go!  They turned up the volume on his heartbeat so we could hear it very loudly in the room.  With each contraction I heard the beeping slow and I started to panic a bit.  I asked Gus for his Ipod to listen to something other than his heart slowing so I could stay calm.  As tears streamed down my face and I listened to the Black Eyed Peas (I had to have something… anything that wasn’t sappy that would make me cry) mom came over and prayed for Taylor and me.  After seeing his heart rate drop below the chart for the third time mom went out to speak with the midwife because she was very concerned that with every contraction the beeping became slower and slower and then stopped and we all knew what that meant.  The midwife was watching the monitors as well and my mom told her that she needed to move NOW and I was all right with doing whatever needed to be done even if it was a C-Section to keep Taylor safe. 
The midwife came in with 2 nurses and I knew it was getting bad because this was the 1st time more than 1 person was coming in to see me.  They tried to re-hydrate me and when that didn’t work they gave me oxygen and then flipped me to my left side, then very quickly to my right because that only made it worse.  They gave me a shot in my arm to help slow my contractions which didn’t work and they told everyone but Gus to leave the room.  The surgeon came in, looked over the charts and very quickly said they had to get him out right away.  She called the operating room as they slammed the sides up on my bed and ran me out of the room.  It felt like I was on a medical drama on TV as they ran me down the hall and I saw different faces appear above my bed as they ran.  I heard them tell Gus to follow us and they wheeled me into a white room.  Within seconds the room filled with people gowning up and I was frantically looking left and right for Gus.  As they were prepping me I was trying to get a hold of the situation mentally and I am almost positive I saw them start to cut me open and then a sheet went over my head and there were 2 doctors in my face talking to me, then they put me under general anesthesia and I was out.  It all happened so fast that they wouldn’t let Gus in the operating room because there was no time to get him changed and six minutes later the midwife came out to tell everyone that the baby was OK.  He had been completely entangled in the cord and it was wrapped around his neck 2 times and every time I contracted his heart stopped.  She said his heart rate was around 7, and the doctor said "I've never seen it get that low."  Taylor arrived safe and sound at 10:34 am on October 27, 2010.  Since we waited to find out if Tay was a boy or a girl Grandma Nicky said “well what is it?” and the midwife said, “I didn’t even look!!”  Another nurse came out after that and told them all it was a boy and mommy was doing just fine. 
I was brought out of anesthesia about an hour later and as they wheeled me to recovery I heard them tell me I had a son, and my heart leaped that he was here and safe.  I asked where my husband was and they told me he was upstairs with my baby boy.  I went to sleep after that and woke up another hour later in recovery.  At 1:00 pm they brought me up to our room where Gus handed me my son and I had the most amazing tears of joy stream down my face.  After the most exciting 9 months and the scariest 24 hours I have ever lived thru I met my son, Taylor Lombardo.

Day 23-Favorite vacation

I love to travel and all my vacations are memorable but I think one of the top vacations would have to be Mammoth 2009 and learning to snowboard with my Hubby!

March 29, 2011

Day 22-Favorite city


I am absolutely in LOVE with Lucerne Switzerland.  When I came home from Europe the 1st thing I told mom was "I'm moving to Switzerland."  Well as you can guess that didn't happen but I would still love to live there, and thankfully so would Gus! 

March 28, 2011

Sea World

Taylor and I packed up the car Friday night and headed to San Diego to hang out with James and Dindy! Thursday we got the call that they were driving out for the weekend for Dindy’s birthday and they wanted us to come play. Saturday morning we got up and headed to Sea World for a beautiful day with the fishies. Tay slept about 20 minutes of his normal long naps but he was just delightful all day. He loved being outside and seeing all the beautiful colors in the shows. His little face lit up and he giggled so hard every time he saw Ryle, they are gonna be the best of friends. Gus had snowboarding plans so he stayed behind and hit the snow with the guys, he had a great time but he was missed. I can’t wait to go back this summer with my boys!

Can you tell he was tired on the way home?!?!?! 

G Phi B Flashback

I have a huge anniversary luncheon coming up this weekend for GPhiB and they asked for pics for the slideshow so last week I got all dusty and found my old college boxes and dug out a TON of pictures. After scanning about 50 I realized what a huge project it is gonna be to get all my old pics scanned, but I know it will be worth it. Here's a small collection for you to enjoy! I can't believe it's been 10 years since I graduated, wow has time flown by!

March Mayhem

Day 21-Picture of yourself

My 2nd Birthday!

March 27, 2011

Day 20-Nicknames

I'm Called:       By My:
Peanut                Mom
Sugar                  Dad
Honey                Husband  
Hallz                  Friends and Brother

Day 19-Something you miss

I really miss being able to travel with ONE BAG as a carry on!  Gus and I used to be alble to throw all our stuff in one bag, hop on a plane and go!  Now its 3-4 bags, check the luggage and on and on and on.  One day we will be back to one bag!

March 25, 2011

Day 18-Something you regret

It’s really hard for me to think of past mistakes or transgressions as regrets. I have been through a lot in my life and not all of them are the smartest decisions but I can’t say that I regret all of them. Of course in those “freedom” years there are some people and decisions that I would prefer to not have happened and I will never mention them here, but for the most part I believe every person and situation, was put in my path to lead me right where I am today. Even though I made some "not smart" decisions with past people I don’t doubt one bit that those relationships shaped the person I am today. If you know me and my past you know I have traveled a long broken road and I can’t say that I regret that because it lead me right here, and I love it here. God certainly protected me along the way and I know it was all a part of His plan, even when I veered off the road on my own, He was looking at the map and leading me to bigger and better things.

It’s all about perspective- for example
  • Dated Brad for 6 years, he smothered me and didn’t want me to have friends, 
  • I rebelled and joined sorority (insert long Brad story here)
  • Through Gamma Phi I met Scott,
  • Dated Scott who introduced me to Tyler after college,
  • Dated Tyler who introduced me to his little sister Tammy who was in high school, 
  • Tammy encouraged me to sub at her high school WCHS,
  • WCHS offered me a full time position teaching the following year,
  • Teaching fulltime I had Missy as a student,
  • Missy introduced me to her mom Betty,
  • When I decided to leave teaching (with no plans on where I was going or what I was gonna do) Missy told her mom,
  • Betty approached me one day and asked if I would like to come work for her, I said “what’s the job” she said “what can you do?”
Hired! And 4 years later I have an amazing job, great benefits and I get to bring Tay to work with me every day!

Even though Brad was abusive and Scott was 3 years of fighting, and those relationships ended with lots of heartache, I still think if not for them I would not be here today.

I have tons of little transitions in my life where it hurt a lot while it was happening but now that I look back I can see God’s handy work! I believe every decision –good, bad, or ugly – has made me the woman, wife, mother, daughter and friend I am today, how could I ever think of them as regrets?